INNER CHILD BREAKTHROUGH
MASTERCLASS SERIES FOR WOMENYOU FEEL STUCK.
Unworthy
Filled with shame
WOUNDED
In your relationships
INVISIBLE
Disconnected from self and reality
Unworthy
Filled with shame
Love is every human being’s birthright but…
Repeated shaming comments like – “Bad girl!” along with little to no display of affection in childhood sends the message – I AM NOT LOVABLE – to the child.
When that happens, how can you possibly understand your inherent worthiness?
WOUNDED
In your relationships
A faulty childhood foundation leads to adult dysfunction.
Profound neglect in childhood, leads to feelings of loneliness, abandonment and unhealthy relationships in present day life.
You will need to dig deep to discover and nurture the abandoned child within you.
INVISIBLE
Disconnected from self and reality
When you look in the mirror, WHAT do you see?
‘I feel like I don’t exist ’, ‘It’s like no one can see me’ or ‘It’s as if I’m watching my life from behind a pane of glass’ .
Feeling detached from your body or feeling as though the world around you is unreal usually implies unresolved childhood relational trauma.
EMOTIONAL RECOVERY WORK IS DAUNTING.
Finding someone to guide you through the process can be overwhelming.
Be seen, validated AND understood?
Learn to value and love myself AND the people around me?
Learn effective relationship skills?
Will My Coach …
Respect my process
Partner with me in mapping out a doable recovery plan?
Gently redirect me towards my goals if I get off track ?
Hi, I’m Sylky
As your life coach,
I will help you realize your inherent value.
THE WORLD EVOLVES
AROUND YOU
Feel empowered as you discover that you’ve been carrying the secret to healing all along.
Imagine being able to lovingly set boundaries when a child or spouse infringes on your space.
ACHIEVING HEALTHY BALANCE
Remain centered when confronted with what your ex has said about you to your mother AND your children AND your boss, by practicing essential grounding skills. When you feel panic coming on, learn to work with it, lean into and ultimately, release it.
EVERY RELATIONSHIP IS A MIRROR.
What we do not heal in childhood, we repeat in adulthood. Connecting the dots between what happened then- e.g. dad walking out on mom – to what is going on now, enables you to see where and why you are suffering in your relationships today. And leads the way to repair.
THE ANSWER HAS BEEN WITHIN YOU ALL ALONG
TOGETHER, we will unpack the roots of your shame and distress. And outline a clearly defined coaching plan that speaks YOUR language and tells YOUR truth.
“SYLKY REALLY GOT DOWN TO THE ROOT OF MY PAIN”
“I’d been to dozens of top name therapists before Sylky and she was more in tune than any of them. Sylky really got down to the root of my pain.. But unlike the other therapists I went to, who made me feel like I was doing the work on my own, Sylky made me feel like we were in this together.
Sylky taught me how to self regulate, how to ground myself when feeling anxious, and how to overcome my panic attacks. Not only is Sylky non judgemental, compassionate and validating but she is skilled and knowledgeable and has a true desire to help.”
OKAY. YES. I GET YOUR PAIN.
BUT… AM I QUALIFIED?
Years of Coaching
Years in Education
Grateful Clients
Just so you know –
During our session, while we’re getting cozy and chatting like old friends, you’re actually benefiting from my years of training and experience.
In the past 12 years, I’ve coached hundreds of clients. My training includes certification in family life coaching from the Academy for Family Coach Training and my approach to family of origin (that’s fancy for the family you grew up in) is based on Pia Mellody’s therapeutic model of the five core issues and inner child work.
In addition to my life coaching experience, my 20+ years in the education field places me in a unique position to be a coach who not only skillfully guides her clients in one-on-one settings but can also, masterfully lead workshops and teach webinars and seminars on a group level.
LET’S NOT JUST TALK,
LET’S DO SOMETHING ABOUT YOUR PAIN
I’ve also trained in multiple mind-body modalities including the interplay of the nervous system and trauma (Polyvagal theory) and Somatic Experiencing (SE) which is a process that recognizes the intimate relationship between the human body and an individual’s psychological well-being.
Being trauma-informed on this level provides me with a fundamental understanding of the way the brain and nervous system work in response to trauma and is highly effective in my practice.
My fundamental belief
HOLDING YOUR SACRED PLACE
Every human being is created whole.
You are not “broken”. The messages you received were broken. By letting go of the shame that has trapped you for so long, you open up to the wholeness that has been there all along.
Living and thriving is our birthright.
We are as emotionally healthy as our (childhood) foundation is strong. Yet, sometimes we have to look backwards in order to move forward.
Each of us is a unique individual.
Each of us is a unique person living within a community of people. Every individual deserves to live in safety and serenity – in body & soul, in family and in community.
My fundamental belief
HOLDING YOUR SACRED PLACE
Every human being is created whole.
You are not “broken”. The messages you received were broken. By letting go of the shame that has trapped you for so long, you open up to the wholeness that has been there all along.
Living and thriving is our birthright.
We are as emotionally healthy as our (childhood) foundation is strong. Yet, sometimes we have to look backwards in order to move forward.
Each of us is a unique individual.
Each of us is a unique person living within a community of people. Every individual deserves to live in safety and serenity – in body & soul, in family and in community.
“I TRUST HER SKILLS AND HER HEART”
“Why do I refer clients to Sylky?
Because she’s safe, stable and thorough. Her work is extremely tender and gentle and goes down to the deepest layers of the child self which makes for the most integrated healing.
But I would only send someone to her if I knew they were ready to do the work, to really look within and get the tools to see why they function the way they function and how to best support themselves.”
“FOR THE FIRST TIME, I HEAR MY WIFE SAYING – I GOT THIS!”
“All I can say is I have my wife back and in a much healthier version!
She has self confidence, she can make choices now and be comfortable with whatever happens. Previously if I would ask her something as simple as to pick something up on the way home from work, she’d freak out. Now, these things are not even the slightest issue.”
“Sylky’s philosophy of getting to the core issue, I believe, is the only way to truly fix your problems. Everything else is like putting on bandaids and those solutions do not last.”
“I also appreciated Sylky’s availability and devotion to her clients’ (in this case, my wife’s!) well being.”